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May 20, 2021Liked by Lauren Valdez

It’s easy to become numb to the world around us when we experience trauma. Glad you were able to recognize this and rise up. Your Dad wouldn’t want it any other way. Love you!

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My dear sweet Lauren, I never knew just how much we had in common until I read your heartfelt article. My dad was a longshoreman, and he was a very good musician. He had his own band, and played the bass. "The doctors of rhythm", were his second love. There's so much that happens when a daughter has been close to her dad, and he's no longer on earth 💔. That is a huge void, and yet, everything they've taught you, becomes crystal clear. Sometimes you find yourself wanting to call them and share your experiences and confirm 👍their wisdom to them. Thankfully you can still whisper, you were right again daddy. No worries, my friend. Your dad definitely met your son. They met in heaven, not on earth. Dad, Sent him to you to help you heal. He wanted you happy, after all you're his Baby Girl. No good father, wants to see his daughter crying. It absolutely breaks their hearts. Now that your Son is here with you, he brings life to You, your family and joy. And yes, we've learned to fill the dash between our date of birth, and the day we transition. We have NEVER been more clear, about living our best life's. We understand and value time, family and friends. Our weekends mean more. Holidays are super special and we celebrate the little things more. You and I have been blessed by our Father's. We know that we were loved and we pray for girls that never had their daddy treat them like a princess 👸. They missed what we had daily. Be gentle with yourself and keep on writing ✍. Thanks for sharing.

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